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atruelove201
Newbie Joined: 18 Jul 2017 Location: phoenix, Arizona, United States Points: 20 |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2017 at 9:34pm |
I have a dilemma. I have a long distance relationship with this wonderful woman overseas. It's been going for two and a half years but I haven't met her yet. We've been contemplating meeting in person for months and I'm wondering if I should send money so she can visit or I go to her instead? For some background, the woman I'm dating is from Odessa, Ukraine and we met through online chatting. It was from this site called A Foreign Affair It was recommended to me by friends who actually met their wives through the site. I'm not "buying" a person, I'm only using the services. I talk to my gf on the phone with the help of a translator. That was a year ago, I'm getting better with my Ukrainian and she with her English We can communicate fairly well without help. I want to know if it's safe to travel in Ukraine during December? I wanna spend the holidays with her. It's always been Skype and telephone calls in the past two years, I was thinking we should spend time together in person. It’s not that I don’t trust her, it’s just I’m not sure if I want her to travel alone by herself coming here in Colorado. She did say that she will be fine and I know she can do it, but I dunno, I kind of feel iffy about it. Tell me guys, should I visit her in Ukraine or should I just send her money to have her travel here US? Any advice will greatly help. Thanks in advance!!! |
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algogo
Newbie Joined: 23 Oct 2017 Location: White Rock, British Columbia, Canada Points: 4 |
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I think it is better to visit her in Ukraine. Hopefully you may get to meet the family or friends. I think for the ladies safety is the primary concern. Plus she will be more comfortable in her home country than being a loner in Colorado. I am going through the same thing and I suggested that I visit her at her place and meet the family. It also gives you the opportunity to see the person in their own daily lives. It's assurance for both of you.
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