The pain has kept me from moving forward. I thought it will be her I’ll be spending my life with. She was almost perfect not until I caught her cheating on me. I still love her, and I can’t just forget about her. My friends are telling me I’m a fool for being this foolish for long. They always remind me that life must go on and I should not be so stagnant with what my situation is now. They keep on telling me to look beyond, like involving myself with other activities, date again with old acquaintances, entertain dating foreign events, or go to clubs and bars. Will these really help?