I’m really frustrated with how things are between me and my girlfriend right now. We met through a social dating tour about 4 years ago and everything’s been magical. The first two years were great and all. I got to fly back and forth to visit her often, I met her family and friends. Things were going so good until last year.

The whole year last year, I wasn’t able to come see her since I had a lot of unexpected financial problems which hindered me from booking a ticket. So, for the entire year, we couldn’t see each other. She offered to come over here to see me but I always insisted that I would book a ticket soon since I know she also needs the money. During the last few months until now, she’s starting to doubt our relationship -and me. She insists that I keep promising her I would come over but I always end up giving reasons instead. She feels as though I might be cheating on her or if I don’t want to put as much effort in the relationship as I normally do. It’s been really stressful lately and I just don’t know what to do. I’ve got tons of problems here at home, work and my relationship. What should I do? Leave? Fight?