Chinese culture is giving me headache.
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Topic: Chinese culture is giving me headache.
Posted By: chenlee
Subject: Chinese culture is giving me headache.
Date Posted: 13 Aug 2018 at 3:53am
e: pre-wrap;">I am Chinese and in our culture, love is not enough to let two people marry. Status and family lineage are big issues when it comes to Chinese people. This problem is what I’m facing right now. I am planning to marry my girlfriend even t ugh I know from the very start that my family would object. I still tried to convince them tugh. My girlfriend is not Chinese like me, and she doesn’t come from a well-off family which I know for sure matters for my family. When I told my parents about it, they got mad. They won’t even listen to whatever I say. I have tried to date Shenyang women before to please them but my heart wouldn’t just beat for them. I really don’t know what to do. This is what I really hate about being a Chinese.
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Posted By: frederickallo
Date Posted: 14 Aug 2018 at 9:35am
| Hey, I think what you can do is probably tell your parents you will not marry and will not give them any grandchildren.... believe after some time they will allow you to go ahead and marry the love of your life |