Ok I’m liking two women right now, I’m not exclusive to either of them but I do feel really guilty. I’m 31 (M).
Girl #1: I have known longer since 2015, she lives in Tennessee I live in Georgia kinda long distance. Honestly I have only met her once and it was this year in June. We have a connection & yes we did have sex. To be honest this girl went back to her ex on me in March and that relationship lasted until May & I was hurt then but I decided to give her another chance. I have a friendship with this woman & I have made her feel special just from the things I have done for her. Now she has a very busy schedule because of work, college, & helping her son with school. She told me that she’s not ready for a relationship right now due to having a busy schedule, that she doesn’t know when she’ll be ready & that it might not happen because she doesn’t know what she’ll be doing. She has told me that she has feelings for me though. She’s 30 until December 19th.
Girl #2: I have known her since last year in December, a coworker referred me to her. I still have not seen her yet because she wants to wait until COVID-19 is over. She lives close to my city & obviously the same state. I want to meet her & she wants to meet me. I have video chatted with her a few times. I have grown to have a bit of a crush on her though. I can tell she has some sort of interest in me because she always hits me up. Her schedule is not as busy as Girl #1 & She’s 40 until December 5th.
Like I have said I have made no commitments to either, but feel guilty. With Girl #1 it may take a while or a few years before she’s ready to commit. With Girl #2 we just need to meet because I think she might be more ready.
What should I do? Should I keep quiet right now knowing there’s no commitments made? Or should I just wait it out then say something? I don’t want to lead them but at the same time I just don’t know what to say or if I should say anything.
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