I just want to get it off my chest that it’s really pissing me off how my girlfriend seems to invalidate my feelings. Every single time that we have argument, she makes it seem like I’m not allowed to feel anything about whatever we're arguing about i.e. get mad, sad, etc. One time, I found out about her ex joining her family’s party which I wasn’t invited to and she got in a pissy mood when I told her that I felt bad about the situation. Who won’t she feel bad about that? I’m not a very emotional person, but I also have my limits. Just because I’m a guy, doesn’t mean I don’t feel anything too. I already talked to her about this and she doesn’t seem to bother. Being in this situation makes me regret breaking up with my first girlfriend whom I met in an foreign date live event. I guess this is bad karma coming back to me.